Words have an amazing power It can make a person confident, strong and courageous and It can make them the opposite hesitant, weak and afraid.
Positive words have a good effect on people, because It develop self confidence and It make the the unconscious mind immune to negative things!
And in the other hand negative words can destroy a person completely! Only one word can make a confidence and strong person weak and afraid of others.
Have you ever heard of Influencing others by repetition?
You can make anyone believe what you have told them just by repeating the word you want them to believe! this effect has two sides either it is good or it is bad.
for example :
Repeating words to children may make them actually what they were told saying “You are brave” and repeat it to the child at different times makes the unconscious mind believe this and the child grows up with a brave personality.
As for the use of negative words such as "you are an idiot", it may very badly affect the child's personality, making them afraid and hesitant.
And it is difficult to treat this problem when the child grows up when the unconscious mind believes that, it will take a lot of time and effort to remove this negative effect.
As studies have shown that negative words breed cruelty, a child who learns nothing but negativity may be a negative person in the future, even for those who never interacted with them when they were young.
As Muslims we must be aware of the benefits and dangers of words we say we should always choose our terms and words to anyone, whether it is a friend, our family or stranger spreading goodness and trust in our community makes us stronger and braver, so we must always be careful and look to the future first for a safe and peaceful life.
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